The Hotel Room That Bought Him 7.5 Hours
He could have gotten up at 2 AM to train and commute home. Instead he booked a hotel. It wasn’t perfect — but he slept, moved, and showed up better. Today I share two tips that can change the game!
For most of my career, I've worked alongside people carrying extraordinary responsibility.
Leaders. Caregivers. First responders. Professionals who show up every day for others, make difficult decisions, solve complex problems, and keep moving forward regardless of what is happening in their own lives.
From the outside, they often look successful. Behind the scenes, many are running on empty. Sleep becomes optional. Recovery becomes an afterthought. Stress accumulates slowly over years until exhaustion, brain fog, declining health, and burnout begin to feel normal. Not because they're weak. Because they care deeply about the people and missions they serve.
I understand that reality because I've lived it myself.
For more than 26 years, my career has been dedicated to serving others. For the past 14 years, I've led a healthcare services organization where the responsibility never completely turns off. There is always another decision to make, another challenge to solve, another person depending on you.
At home, my husband serves in a demanding emergency response role where long hours, high-pressure situations, and constant readiness are simply part of the job.
Service has shaped our lives and for years, I believed that pushing through fatigue was simply the cost of leadership. Then I realized something important: The habits that helped me succeed professionally were not necessarily helping me sustain that success.
As a leader and trainer, I've spent more than 15 years teaching frameworks related to human behavior, stress response, executive functioning, trauma-informed practices, and resilience. I understood the impact stress has on people. I taught others about it regularly.
Yet like many leaders, I wasn't applying the same level of attention to my own recovery. That realization led me deeper into the science of human performance.
I began studying how stress affects the nervous system, sleep, energy, decision-making, and long-term health. I explored tools used in sports science, psychology, and clinical research to better understand what was happening beneath the surface.
What I discovered was empowering.
Heart Rate Variability (HRV), cortisol testing, stress assessments, and sleep metrics provide objective insight into how our bodies are responding to the demands of leadership.
For someone who has always valued data, that changed everything. Instead of simply feeling exhausted, I could understand why. Instead of relying on willpower, I could make informed decisions. Instead of hoping things would improve, I could track meaningful progress.
That's why I created Vitality Leaders.
I believe leaders deserve more than generic wellness advice. They deserve practical tools, measurable data, and a clear path toward sustainable performance.
At Vitality Leaders, we help leaders understand their stress, strengthen their recovery, and build the energy required to lead well for the long haul. Because success should not require sacrificing your health. And the goal isn't simply to perform at a high level today.
The goal is to have the vitality, resilience, and capacity to continue making an impact for years to come.
— Sarah
Honest reflections on burnout, sleep, and the path back to energy.
Jun 23, 2026 7:29 AM
He could have gotten up at 2 AM to train and commute home. Instead he booked a hotel. It wasn’t perfect — but he slept, moved, and showed up better. Today I share two tips that can change the game!